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A delightful book.
A beautiful book

What is an ampersand?Oh--commas! Where do you put the blasted things? The world would be better off if we had less of them and could just concentrate on more important things like how to spell such words as superkalafragilisticexpalidoshious--did I spell that correctly?
As my friends at Amazon Books will attest(comma) I am not the best when it comes to punctuation. I'm becoming confident, however, in my abilites to put such things as commas in their place. My confidence didn't come from a school teacher. How many teachers do you know that tell you what the name, pro-noun, means? I did not honestly know that (pro) meant for the noun. Oh, I knew what pronouns were; I just didn't know where they were coming from.
I'll tell you something else (as long as my wife doesn't read this). I am an indefinite pronoun to her. In our house it's always, "Somebody didn't hang up their towel." Or, "I could sure use someones help with these dishes. Now I have a new name, it's called: Indefinite Pronoun. "SOMEBODY GET THE PHONE!" "Yes dear."
My apologies to my wife, she really is an angel.
So, why did I give this book a five-star rating? I think it was because of what is written at the top of page 29. If you have problems with punctuation like I do, or you realize your new name is, Indefinite Pronoun. You need a book like this one so at least you can say, "Hey, somebody left thier pantyhose hanging on the shower rod again."
Every rule you need in one short book

The political is wedded to the personalAs the book description notes, this story of one such wedding is told from four different viewpoints, the two halves of the gay couple, Douglas Wythe and Andrew Merling, and Andrew's parents, Roslyn and Sheldon Merling. Though the four viewpoints are presented as a dialog, alternating with one another, the narrative is blended into a coherent whole by a skilled editorial hand.
The Merlings consider themselves accepting of their gay children. (Andrew's older brother is also gay.) Roslyn, a social worker, helped found a synagogue-affiliated support group for parents of gays and lesbians. And Sheldon states over and over that he has no objection to a small, private "commitment ceremony" between Andrew and Doug. It's the vision of a big public affair that takes him aback. That, and the fact that both Doug and Andrew want to be married under a chuppah (canopy), an essential part of all Jewish weddings, and follow the other traditions that mark a Jewish wedding ceremony. Most of all, Sheldon adds, he wants to avoid having whatever ceremony is held turn into a political statement.
By the day of the wedding, it is clear to the other three, if not to Sheldon himself, that this is impossible. Like any other wedding, a wedding between a same-sex couple is a personal affirmation of love and commitment. But dignifying same-sex ceremonies with the term wedding, as opposed to commitment ceremony or holy union, seems upsetting to both homophobes and to those who believe themselves to be free of prejudice. This account by Doug, Andrew and Andrew's parents is both honest and moving as they describe both the conflicts that arise between them and their own internal struggles with the vestiges of homophobia and of concern with their wider community's reaction. Nor are these limited to the parents, as both young men describe their own struggles with self-acceptance. (As an example of the latter, the two decide against dancing with each other in a "first dance" at their wedding reception.)
With the aid of an understanding family therapist, both generations gain a greater understanding of the other's viewpoint. The parents overcome their initial shock to reach the point of walking their son down the aisle together (another Jewish tradition). It is this emotional journey that is the heart and strength of this book. So it's not giving anything away to say that yes, Andrew and Doug do have the blowout wedding of their dreams. Or to add that the somewhat scandalized congregation at their wedding gains a new appreciation both of their love for one another and of the rightness of their having a wedding to celebrate it. (As members of a close-knit Jewish community, Sheldon and Roslyn attended the weddings of the children of their many friends, and were obliged to return the favor with their own invitations to Andrew's ceremony.)
Toward the end of the book, Doug writes that when gay people are "not expending energy on hiding the fact, every moment is potentially political." This account underscores not only that fact, but the costs of being less than totally honest. One of the most poignant stories in the book for me was when Doug writes a letter to his parents, formally "coming out" to them. As he had brought Andrew home for several holiday dinners, he assumed that his parents understood that he was gay, without his ever having put it in words before. As it turns out, both his mother and father had separately made this assumption, but each, fearing the other could not bear to know it, had kept it to themselves, creating an unnecessary wall of silence in their marriage. It would seem (as PFLAG stresses in support groups) that honesty is not only the best cure for homophobia, but for strengthening family relationships as well.
I recommend this book wholeheartedly. About the only criticism I can make is that it would have been nice to have a few photos of the wedding, rather than just painting the elegant setting with words.
Is this really necessary?What makes this book such a good read is that it it is formatted as a dialogue between Doug, Andrew, and Andrew's conservative Jewish parents, Roslyn and Sheldon. The story is told from these four points of view, each often offering conflicting or significantly different interpretations of the same events leading up to Doug and Andrew's wedding. It is this approach that enables the book to be more than a simple advocacy of gay marriage -- by enabling the reader to see through the eyes of people on different sides of this issue, the book shows the many emotional and oftentimes humorous effects such a decision can have on a family. Ultimately, a compelling read that reinforces faith in the strength and love that one often finds in the best of families in the toughest of situations.


Another winner for Doug AllynBobby focuses in on the small town where Roland Costa and his son Rol, jr. were last seen. They had been there to attend the funeral of Roland's brother and then seemingly disappeared.
Nobody expects Bobby to discover anything new. He's just supposed to give the place a second look.
When somebody begins shooting at Bobby, it becomes obvious that in this rural setting, someone has something more than just a small town mentality resentment of this outsider.
The ending comes out of nowhere and slaps the reader right in the face, Doug Allyn style.
Excellent, as usualAllyn is the best in the biz at conveying small towns, and the ruggedness of rural life, without overdoing it-- unlike so many big city types who tend to slip into satire or some "Deliverance" take off when doing small town suspense.
Great storytelling, and a GREAT ending.


Not Just for SkepticsThe book reflects untold hours of deliberation by the author, painstaking attention to details of Scripture, and clear-cut explanations of many of the simple but yet profound teachings of Christ.
Early in Chapter 8 John Long presents what he refers to as the "Gist" of the gospel of Christ. This summary goes right to the heart of the gospel and is easy to understand. I recommend it as a good starting point for anyone interested in studying this book and thinking seriously about Christ.
The author is to be commended for his work. I highly recommend this book. It is not just for skeptics. It is also for believers. Good job, well done.
George J. Keller Bloomington, Indiana
A persuasive and easy-to-read summary of Christianity.

Whispers in the Wind
Trench eyeview of WW I

Transition from hot to cold war.
A fitting story to close out the sea battles of WWII

Read on and do not forget the fifth one wich ends the seriesIn the USA "Attack on the Redan" fifth and last of the Crimean War volumes will be released on October (and no I am not the author neither the editor...). The end of the last one is a little syruped or coated in sugar (at least the ending chapters)and you get the impression a book started by Andy McNab is finished by Barbara Cartland (OK this is an exageration but to a point there is some truth in it...).
If you have read the series you would have noticed Crossman peloton is something like the Roots of the SAS aproach to warfare... so the comparaison with Andy McNab novels was compulsory.
I loved the series as a fan of the Crimean War and the XIXth century, but also for the rich "secondaries" on the novels wich reminded me a lot of John Ford's film characters.
RECOMMENDED.
Entertaining fictional account of the Crimean WarThe author does an excellent job conveying the hopelessness and the futily of the Crimean War--the squalor, the mud, the entrenched lines which cannot be broken, the incompetence of the generals and the waste of lives, as well as descriptions of those Britons who went to Crimea as sightseers, along with servants, picnic baskets, wine, wives and mistresses, to witness the battles. I also like that Kilworth spends time describing the British class system and how it permeated the army (the younger sons of the aristocracy often went into the army as officers; their rank was purchased rather than awarded according to merit), thus keeping the officers forever separated from the men in the ranks and causing a great deal of anomisity on both sides.
I also like that the author has taken the time to develop his characters thoroughly. Readers have a good sense of exactly who Fancy Jack is, his strengths and weaknesses both as a soldier and as a human being, his strained relationship with his father, his love and admiration for his half-brother, his complicated relationship with Lavinia Durham (told with plenty of humor), an old flame now married to an officer, his uncertain feelings about his cousin (he comes across as a bit of a nerd), his good relationships with his superior officers (except Pirce-Smith) and with his peloton. The other characters are also fully developed, from the insecure whiner Wynter to the boastful (been everywhere, seen everything, done everything) Gwilliams to Peterson, the woman sharpshooter. They rag on eachother, pick on eachother, squabble just like siblings, yet when they have to operate as a unit, they do so. This unusual blend of war and personal relationships makes this an interesting change from the usual war novels, which tend to focus much more upon the fighting than the soldiers. I shall look for the earlier novels, and look forward to the further adventures of Fancy Jack and his peloton. Highly recommended.


For the experienced spiritual adventurere
Helpful insights into the spiritual battle we encounter.

Exciting, historically accurate action-adventure!G. A. Henty wrote a scores of historical fiction stories about the Middle Ages and other time periods, including Ancient Civilizations, the Renaissance, and even journeys to the new world. At the turn of the century, he was a renowned author, especially among high-school boys. I am surprised that he has been almost completely forgotten today. Henty is a marvelous author who wrote exciting, historically accurate, action-adventure books.
Wulf is a Saxon thane who is under the command of Earl Harold of Wessex. He is always by Harold's side, ready for adventure with his right-hand man Osgod and his best friend Beorn. They fight the Welsh, the Bretons, Vikings, and finally the Normans under the command of the Duke of Normandy, a.k.a. William the Conqueror at the final conflict at Hastings.
If all Henty's books are like this one, I'm going to ask my parents to order the whole set! The only downside to investing your time in this book is the beginning is a little slow. But after that, It's Great! I can't wait to read the next one.
All good books.